Its not my son that scares guys away, They love him to death. I'll date a guy for two weeks and soon as they find out i have a tumor in my brain. They run the other way. (I'm not sure why but they seem to think I'm going to die soon.) Which isn't true last time I was at the doctors they said it gotten smaller and i'm doing well. People ask me all the time when are you going to die but I don't think about that. Anywho, When I tell these guys they feel bad and or pretend to and then tell me they don't want to date anymore. Leaving me heartbroke and in tears.

awww, sweetie i wouldn't tell them in such a short period of time. if you think you telling them about your condition is what's making the guys leave, then maybe you should wait a while and see how it goes from there. i think you just need to meet somebody who's man enough to handle this situation , those other men seem to be cowards and childish. well good luck to you.